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Cheeky, curious, and accidentally sexy. Oops — did I say that out loud 🤔💕?

Are we focusing on the wrong questions when we blame and shame people who cheat?

Individual woman holding marquee-type sign saying, “This is not my secret. It’s yours.”
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“Girl, look at you!”

“Phillip! Oh my god, can you believe we’re here at a national sales meeting with a completely different company the same weekend as our old company’s? It feels surreal.”

Phillip and I had left our previous employer through a reduction in force and landed at a…


We know it’s wrong. Let it go before it starts.

Falling in love with a married man. Man and woman making love in shower.
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I know what you’re thinking. If I read a headline about falling in love with a married man, I’d think, “woman, are you crazy? Stupid? Or are you simply immoral?”

Frankly, I wouldn’t blame you if you held these opinions. Reading the comments on other Medium articles on this topic…

Jessika Lakin

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